You Are Not Alone

We are here to help you safely, discreetly, and without pressure. If you are experiencing abuse or have left an abusive relationship, but are still feeling its effects, please know that support is available, and you don't have to go through this alone.

I understand how frightening and isolating it can feel when home, where you should feel safest, becomes a place of fear and uncertainty. No one deserves to live in fear, and reaching out for help takes immense courage.

At D&N, we are fully committed to providing protection, support, and practical legal help to those experiencing domestic abuse. I’ve worked with domestic violence clients since 2016, and during that time, I’ve developed close working relationships with refuge workers and regularly received referrals from the National Centre for Domestic Violence (NCDV) in my previous role.

I know how important it is to act quickly, to listen without judgment, and to offer support that’s both effective and compassionate. I also understand that every survivor's experience is different, and so is the way they process and respond to it. I’m here to help you navigate this process at a pace and approach that feels right for you. You are not alone, and support is available.

Understanding Domestic Abuse

Domestic abuse takes many forms, and under the Domestic Abuse Act 2021, it’s recognised that harm isn’t always physical. Emotional manipulation, psychological abuse, coercive control, financial restriction, and sexual abuse are all legally acknowledged forms of domestic abuse.

One common and often overlooked form of abuse is gaslighting, a tactic where a person manipulates someone into doubting their reality or feelings. It can leave survivors feeling confused, disoriented, and silenced. Gaslighting can make it incredibly difficult for someone to recognise abuse or feel confident seeking support.

I also see many cases where children are used as a tool of control, especially during or after separation. Sadly, this can involve undermining the other parent, manipulating the child emotionally, or using contact arrangements as leverage. This kind of post-separation abuse is common and can be just as damaging. It often continues long after the relationship has ended and filters through the children, affecting their well-being and stability.

Specialised Legal Support

I specialise in contact and child arrangement matters, and I’m highly experienced in navigating the legal complexities that arise when abuse intersects with family law.

My priority is always to ensure that children are protected and that my clients are supported through clear, compassionate legal guidance, especially where patterns of abuse are ongoing or disguised as ‘parenting disagreements.’

I understand the urgency, the emotional toll, and the need for swift, sensitive legal action. Every survivor’s experience is unique, and I take care to listen attentively, act promptly, and provide guidance that empowers clients to move forward safely and with confidence.

Legal Protections Available

If you’re experiencing or have experienced domestic abuse, it’s essential to know that legal protection is available, and it can be put in place quickly when needed.

Non-Molestation Orders offer emergency protection from harassment, threats, or harm. If you’re in immediate danger, these orders can be made urgently and without the other person being notified in advance (known as a “without notice” application). This can help keep you and your children safe while further steps are taken.

Occupation Orders help determine who has the right to live in the family home. If you need the abusive person to leave or need help staying in the home safely with your children, this type of order can provide security and stability during a challenging time.

Both orders are designed to protect you and your family. I have extensive experience securing these for clients in crisis, and will guide you through the process with urgency, empathy, and a clear understanding of what you're going through.

Support Tailored to Your Needs

You don’t have to face this alone; we are here to provide you with the necessary support and protection.

We specialise in domestic abuse and family law, particularly in contact matters, where post-separation abuse can continue to affect children.

As a consultant solicitor, I have the flexibility to work around your needs. I understand that situations involving domestic abuse or urgent family matters don’t always happen during office hours.